Whoever said third time is a charm, sucks, but also wasn't very specific of their definition of the term 'charm'. More like charmless.
You can all be the judge as to what the eff went wrong here. I’m genuinely confused.
I met another gem online and we chatted for a quite a bit, sending each other novels of messages at a time. He was very cute, instant attraction; he even had the capability of making me laugh even by his inbox messages (brownie points!). A real sports buff, charming, sweet, genuine, family oriented, had a good job (assuming all that he sold me was the truth, you never know with online predators) all qualities I picked up just by chatting with him for a few weeks. Soon our online fling emerged to the very serious text messaging relash. For our first date, we arranged to meet up at a quaint coffee shop. Very original, I know. I was downtown, he was uptown, so we arranged to meet up right in the middle.
This is how the conversation went. I saved it because I needed to share it with you. Just wait.
The Ghost: Have you ever heard of a place called Manic Coffee? It’s a coffee house on College St. Are you driving?
Me: Hey! I’m driving, yes. That sounds fine! I’ll scour the city for parking…
The Ghost: We can do something up town if it’s easier. I’m here anyway. Where do you live around?
Me: (At this point, I was getting annoyed because of all the back and forth. I just wanted to get this over with already) I live in ******. Do you have a car? Really, I’m easy. I’ll meet anywhere.
The Ghost: (silence)
Me: (I’m sensing the bail…2 hours later) Ok, clearly this is too difficult to coordinate. Let’s can the idea. Have a good one!
.....anyone? Can anyone tell me what went wrong here? It's easy to say 'he's just not that into me', but he wasn't into me up until what point? Some of my friends suggest it was the Really, I'm easy' comment I made, because that was the last time I heard from him. Ugh, clearly, I didn't mean I'm an easy whore!!! Do you see what single ladies have to deal with these days? Moron. I don't need to associate myself with an uneducated Ghost like that.
Sigh, back to the drawing board. Three dates, no real luck other than THE Ex.
Who wants to be my next victim?
La Blonde xx